Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Sex-positive Virtual Assistant?
A Sex-positive Virtual Assistant (VA) is a sex-positive professional who provides services to individuals or businesses working within the sex-positive community or industries related to sexuality, relationships, and wellness. These industries can include sex education, sexual health, sex therapy, sex tech, adult entertainment, or kink communities. The term "sex-positive" indicates an open, non-judgmental, and affirming attitude towards human sexuality, embracing consensual and healthy expressions of sexual identity, orientation, and behaviour.
What is a Virtual Assistant Agency?
In a virtual assistant agency, the Lead Virtual Assistant (VA) plays a crucial role in managing a team of Virtual Assistant Associates to ensure quality and efficiency. The Lead VA carefully vets and qualifies all associates, assessing their skills, experience, and professionalism before bringing them on board. The associates, who work as freelancers, provide a wide range of services, and clients purchase a set number of hours to access their expertise. This model offers flexibility and allows businesses to scale support according to their needs.
One of the primary benefits of working with such an agency is cost savings. Businesses avoid the overhead expenses associated with hiring full-time staff, such as benefits, payroll taxes, and office space. This setup also provides access to a diverse pool of professionals with specialized skills, enabling businesses to handle a variety of tasks without committing to multiple full-time hires.
Can I just hire a regular assistant, do they have to be sex-positive?
While you can hire a regular assistant for your sexual wellness business, having a sex-positive assistant offers several advantages that can enhance your operations:
A sex-positive assistant, like myself and my sex-positive associates, are more likely to engage comfortably with topics related to sexual wellness.
We have industry knowledge and familiarity with terminology and trends in sexual wellness can lead to smoother communication and efficiency.
We approach tasks related to sexuality without embarrassment, maintaining professionalism and ethical standards.
How many sex-positive businesses have you supported?
In 2 years we have already supported 50+ sex-positive businesses and individuals.
Where can I find references and testimonials from previous clients?
You can find our references, testimonials and client list here.
As the agency owner do you still work with clients?
Yes, I (Amari) am still involved with client-facing work on occasion.
How do you choose your sex-positive associates?
My associates represent me and my business therefore the criteria they have to meet is EXTREMELY high. All my associates are required to be registered as self-employed and be registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO). They must have the appropriate business insurance in place and they sign a contract adhering to high ethical, moral and legal standards of the business. I require 2 references from their previous employers/clients as well as evidence of any previous work they have completed. They must have experience working in the sexual wellness or women's rights space and experience in the services they offer.
But it’s not all about logistics right? Do they have a sex-positive mindset? ALL of my associates are; sex-positive, pro-choice and pro-abortion, kink and BDSM friendly, pro-sex work, pro LGBTQIA+ rights, anti-racist and anti-sexist. I would not bring anyone onto my team who does not uphold these course values of mine and the business.
What services do you and your associates offer?
Admin, social media management, personal assistance, copywriting, sales, marketing, website updates and design, business support, content creation, video editing, research, podcast, events and projects assistance and community management. See a full list of our services here.
What services do you not offer?
My associates and I have covered a lot of services! If you are unsure as to whether we offer the services you need, please email me at info@adminbyamari.com
See a full list of the services we offer here.
Who do you offer your services to?
Any and all sexual wellness and women health professionals, from charities to sex workers. See a full list of who we offer our services to here.
I have checked who you offer your services to but I don’t fit in any of the categories, can I still work with you?
Yes, we have worked across multiple industries such as construction, nurseries, drama schools, photographers, travel, retail, food etc. Please do reach out if you are interested in working together.
What are your qualifications?
BA (Hons) in Sociology (Specialised in topics such as gender violence, sexuality, pornography, sex work, sexual violence, domestic violence, sexual health, feminism, and sexism.)
Level 4 Teaching Relationship and Sex Education Qualification
Training to become a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach
Completed a 2-day intensive Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) program
Level 7 PGCE in Primary Teaching and Learning
Level 3 Safeguarding Lead Qualification
Level 3 GDPR & Data Protection Qualification
Sextech Entrepreneurship Program Graduate
The Psychology of Fetish & Kink Introduction - 7 Week Course
As well as, 8 years working, researching and volunteering in the sexual wellness and women's rights sector and 8 years working in childcare and education, with 5 years of experience in social media management and administrative roles. Check out my LinkedIn for my full work history.
Can I see some of your social media work?
Of course, you can see my portfolio here.
If you work with one of my associates I will be able to provide you with social media examples from them.
I want to join your team of sex-positive virtual assistants!
Yay! Thank you for showing an interest, you can fill out an application form here.
What country are you based in?
London, United Kingdom.
I do not live in the UK, can I use your services?
YES!! As remote workers, we have the privilege of collaborating with people from all over the globe. Whether you’re in Europe, the Americas, or Oceania, I’ve worked across a wide range of time zones. Here are some of the countries of clients we have worked with.
What about the time difference?
You might wonder about the challenge of different time zones, but with flexibility and understanding, it’s never an issue. If you’re willing to start your day a little earlier or stay up a little later, we will happily do the same. This way, we can seamlessly align our schedules and work together efficiently. We have worked with clients in New Zealand which is an 11-hour time difference!
How does my virtual assistant track their time?
They use time-tracking apps such as Toggle and Clockify.
What happens if my VA is sick or on holiday?
The VA will complete the hours purchased around holidays or sickness, if this is not possible another VA can step in and ensure all tasks are completed, you will never be left in the dark!
How do you take payments?
For clients not based in the UK, we take payments via GoCardless.
For those in the UK, it is via bank transfer.
How do you deal with GDPR & data protection?
Me and my associates are fully committed to maintaining the highest standards of data protection and privacy. They are registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) and have the appropriate business insurance in place.
I am registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) and hold a Level 3 qualification in GDPR, ensuring I adhere to all data protection regulations.
Our contract includes a non-disclosure clause to safeguard sensitive information. Additionally, I have business insurance in place, and both my phone and laptop are fully insured. All data is securely stored on a password-protected laptop, ensuring confidentiality and compliance with legal standards at all times.
I am part of the LGBTQIA+, BDSM, kink, sex worker and/or poly community, can we work together?
Absolutely, we can work together! We embrace and celebrate diversity within the LGBTQIA+, kink, BDSM, sex worker, and poly communities. Our goal is to create an inclusive and supportive space for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity.
How much does it cost to work with you and your team?
See our rates here, for rates FAQs please scroll to the bottom of the page.
I can't see rates for my country on here, can we still work together?
Yes of course! Please send me an email info@adminbyamari.com of where you are based and I will send you the rates for your country.
Why are the rates different for each country?
This is because of the conversion rate and transaction fees.
Once I have purchased the hours, how long do I have left to use them?
1 month or 4 working weeks where necessary. Hours purchased do not roll over to the next month.
Can I have a discount?
No, we don’t offer discounts as our pricing reflects the value, quality, and experience we bring to each role. In order to provide the best results, we invest significant time and effort, which allows us to deliver work that meets a high standard.
Our pricing reflects the comprehensive range of services we provide, including my qualifications in sex coaching and sex education, as well as, me and my teams specialised knowledge in administration and social media management within the sexual wellness space.
While some may offer lower prices, we focus on delivering high-quality services that ensure your specific needs are met. Mine and my teams background and experience allow us to provide a level of support that cheaper options may not offer.
If timing is a challenge right now, I’d be happy to discuss future collaboration when it’s more feasible for you, so do not hesitate to book a call with me (Amari) here.
You can also check out my guides for sexual wellness professionals here.
Can I get a refund after I’ve paid if I decide I don’t wish to work together?
No, all payments are final.
I want to hire you for a speaking event!
Yesss! Please send me an email at info@adminbyamari.com with all the information and let’s see how we can work together!